Do You Sit in Your Car, Like, a Lot?

Have you ever pulled into the driveway of your home or a parking lot spot and just ... stayed there? Maybe it's a few minutes, or half an hour. You might be scrolling on your phone, belting out a favorite song, or just staring into the distance. Scroll through TikTok and you'll find countless videos of people wondering aloud why they're doing the same thing. The behavior is so common it's become its own kind of ritual—one people are increasingly recognizing and sharing online. It turns out, science has a few ideas for why people do this: That temporary pause can act as a buffer between one part of the day and the next. And while there isn't an extensive body of research to back it up, experts say this can be good for you, if you keep a few things in mind, per the AP.

"A lot of times we're just going 100 miles an hour," says clinical psychologist Jenny Taitz. "But if we can literally stop [or] slow down, take a step back, observe, proceed mindfully, maybe like a few minutes to reset between activities, it kind of gives you an ability to be intentional."

• Transition time: Brief moments alone can help reset emotions when moving from one thing to another, like leaving work stress behind before coming home. "By taking a brief little break, you can at least take a moment to relax and prepare before moving forward," says UNC psychologist Anthony Vaccaro. People seek out these breaks to process, recalibrate, and shake off the gloom.
• Safe space: Doing it in a car make sense because "it's an in-between space," according to Durham University psychologist Thuy-vy Nguyen. The car is an environment people can have total control over, from the temperature to the music.
• Avoid this: Scientists say taking brief moments to decompress during the workday and after can improve mood, sharpen focus, and boost energy levels. When it comes to breaks in the car, though, whether that pause helps—or hurts—depends on how the time is spent. "If you're in your car scrolling and thinking about something that's upsetting to you or ruminating ... the parked car is not a reset. It's the stressor," says Taitz. Scrolling on your phone can pull your attention toward what's happening on the screen, which can in turn make it harder to decompress.
• But do this: Be mindful of how you're spending the time. Take a few moments to slow your breathing, listen to a familiar song, or make a simple plan for how you want to show up next—whether that's feeling calmer, more patient, or more focused. Even a short pause can shift your state.

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